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The definitive guide on how to divorce a narcissist.
(Please note that this eBook is currently available for UK customers only.)
The scales of justice are completely broken, and nowhere is this more obvious than in divorces involving narcissists. Regardless of where in the world you live, family law systems will haplessly (and sometimes not so haplessly) be enlisted by narcissists to become weapons of their abuse. This ‘lawfare’ (or ‘court-sanctioned abuse’) will be levelled at the very people who need the family court’s protection the most, and those who find themselves locked in a system (which itself perpetrates financial and emotional abuse), quickly learn that their narcissistic ex is actually only half the problem.
If you are a victim-survivor trying to escape your narcissistic partnership, this book, the second in the Narcissists in Divorce series, is written for you. Former medic Dr Supriya McKenna distills her years of experience working with clients into this in-depth, comprehensive, holistic guide – and she leaves no stone unturned. She breaks down her unique perspectives on how to stay afloat whilst swimming through the murky waters of the legal system, and shows you how to take control of the narrative, whilst simultaneously protecting your mental health.
Dr McKenna teaches you how to vet potential lawyers; details exactly how they should minimize the potential for long-term post-separation abuse; and even deals with how to spot (and sack) a narcissistic lawyer. She takes you through the practical realities of co-parenting with a narcissist; shows you how to protect your children from their narcissistic parent; and teaches you effective communication tactics with which to manage your narcissistic ex.
Including sections on cyberstalking and tech abuse, how to get your ex diagnosed for the court, and ways to try to stay away from the court arena, Dr McKenna masterfully tackles the complexities of this huge subject. She delivers the content in easy-to-read, bite-sized sections, with the warmth and empathy that has been so missing in her readers’ lives. This is, without a doubt, the definitive guide on how to divorce a narcissist.
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"This book has been life changing for me. I’ve gone from 6 years of constant torment and head spinning to issues getting resolved pretty much straight away by following these simple steps. This book is the best kept secret to crack the narcissist nightmare."
"An invaluable guide to preventing and dealing with separation and post-separation abuse. This book helped turn anxiety to confidence during litigation with a narc. I'd recommend going through it with a highlighter. It will enable you to identify evidence and shine a light on the NPD's lies, manipulation and twisted logic, so that you can present your case to the court in a child-focused manner.
Translating narcissistic speak is a valuable tool, firstly to stop yourself believing you're the one to blame, but also for understanding the true drivers behind the narc's behaviour. There's also a great chapter on how to deal with a disprove the narc's allegations about you and another on how to help your children if they remain in the narc's care for any/majority of the time.
There really does need to be more awareness of NPD as people with this condition are so good at flying under the radar, destroying lives, particularly those in the role of caregivers. Thank you, Dr McKenna for all the work that you continue to do on this subject.""This book is incredibly helpful and insightful. It's well written, compassionate and informative. I read one of Dr McKenna's previous books, Divorcing a Narcissist a few months ago, but I found this book much more practical and up to date. It especially helped me to understand the minefield of the family court system so I could make proper choices , which my lawyers had failed to help me with. The book is arranged so you can dip into it for specific information and I've found it invaluable for my financial court case and also for the children side of things. It even gives detailed guidance about parenting with a narcissist. Dr McKenna was speaking at a conference I attended, and it is obvious that she is the leading expert in this field. This book confirms that. It is essential reading for anyone who is leaving (or has left) a narcissist. My thanks to Dr McKenna for all her incredibly important work."
"The best book in this field. Brilliant book, covering the relevant ground in a thorough and accessible way. Once you’ve worked through this, you will be fully equipped to handle all the malign strategies and schemes that the narcissist will try to deploy. There is no comparable book that is as thorough as this. Dr McKenna leaves no stone unturned and no chink in your armour. Absolutely required reading if you’re seeking to leave a narcissist and to ensure damage limitation for your own health and bank balance!"
"Invaluable. Thank you for writing this wise and helpful book, it is so helpful for practical advice on so many aspects of dealing with the narcissist through divorce, including legal and emotional. It's so important first of all, to get full clarity about the kind of person you're dealing with, what they are likely to do or not do, and how to create a protective shield throughout the divorce process so you can protect yourself and your children. This book helps you to do that, so you don't slip into the kindness and empathy that kept you embroiled and open to exploitation. I especially love the section on 'becoming more narcissist' - thinking and acting like them, as a strategy."
"McKenna knows her area of expertise. Lots of tips and practical advice for anyone who want/needs to divorce a narcissist.
At the same time, empathetic support and a realistic outlook on what awaits you there. Good preparartion and a section on co-parenting. Absolute recommendation, although legal advice only for England, everything else is transferable!"